I agree that you've had some wonderful ADC's and that your wife had a validating one too!
Remember that we in the physical world have Free Choice and our Loved Ones in Spirit or our Spirit Guides can only show us options, not TELL us what to do. Your mother or Spirit Guide (the voice) indicated that with saying "2 doors are open", I believe.
I also believe that when we are going down the best path or through the best door for us, things tend to fall into place....BUT it is our choice to travel that direction.