I will try and keep this short and sweet. My father in law passed away 1 yr and half ago due to an inoperable brain tumour. After he passed my daughter had seizures due to the death and I kept her in my bed every night. My husbund slept on the sofa up until this day.
During this time he started talking to a girl on tinder (dating app)
I caught him in June chatting, texting and he knew I was hurt, he said he will not talk to her again and that was that.
In August I went away for one month with my mum and two children. In that time he met her 5 times, they went to a pub a few times where they would drink and get intimate, he got intimate in her car and she booked a hotel and asked him to spend the night but he never did...he made an excuse and only went the next morning for coffee.
I am upset, angry numb shocked. I was there for his dad and was close to him. I can not mention his dad without him crying / breaking down. He drinks every day and says it helps him deal with his dad.
After I confronted him he deleted her details has apologised daily and agreed to see a councillor.
I don’t know what to do I am lost.
Another thing that happened was in June we went out for my brother in laws birthday, his brother got drunk.. we stayed over at his brothers house my husband slept down stairs on the sofa I slept in the same bed as his wife. My brother in law got into the bed and slept..he was kissing me on my cheeks trying to talk about his life tried to kiss me on my lip I said no.
I am a complete mess and do not know what to do.
My husband told his mum and shouted at his brother for what he did. I feel like I am the punch bag for their grief
Please can somebody help I am at my lowest. |
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