You have an incredibly beautiful website. It fills me with hope as I am awaiting an adc from my father who passed Dec. 1. Your site is truely moving and inspirational. Thank you.

i hvn't read this bk yet. but i asked my dad 4 it 4 christmas. he and my mom must think i'm crazy 2 ask 4 a book about death but i'm really interested in it. i'm kinda scared about what will happen when we die. i hope this will comfort me. thanx 4 tellin me bout it!!

I am new and haven't perused yet, but I have heard beautiful things from a friend. I wish you all Lots of Love Light Chuckles and Hugs Dolly xxxxxxx

I just want to thank you for such a wonderfully heart felt project. And for giving us a place to find comfort from our loss, again thank you and may God bless you...

With in six months I lost the person I consider my mother and my only child, my son Cody. He was 15 1/2. He is my best friend being a single mom. We always talked of life after death and believed in it. We had a deal who ever went first to let the other one know it is true. Cody was trying to prepare me and his friends of his death. We didn't know of it till after his accindent/crash. He was hit by a car while riding his bikecycle.Everyone seen him but that one driver. After his funeral we were all talking. He told his confermation class what he wanted to be buried in on the last day of class. As his best friend left for the airport to go home, Cody told him remember I am an orgon donor and much more went on with others. I told him I didn't want to discuss his death that I would be first. He gave me a lecture on God being a mystery, how we have no controll over somethings. Don't question God's reasons.He is the only one that can see the whole plan. There are somethings we will never know or understand.Just have faith and trust and believe in him. I remember his words so well and recall them everyday. I kept thinking in my mind, my son was going to die. I would push it out of my mind. This went on for a year. Then on day not very far from his death date, I had to face it someoone was making me. I had to pull over on the side of the rode and face every mothers greates fear. The death of her child.I started to feel the pain of what life would be like with out him, his death. That summer Cody asked once due to a kidney infection if he was going to die. That summer he just about had a fatal accident with a riding lawn mower. This 5" 9' kid is huddle on my lap cryng and shaking from the experince of just about getting killed. I asked him if he was afriad of dieing. His asnswer was no mom. Just the pain of how I will die.He died about a month later. He also gave a sermon at our church about the 3 most inportant things in his life. Bapstim, confermation, death. He wanted me to put all those dates on his headstone. I did. I have had lots of ADC with him, so has alot of our family and friends. If you need anyone from this area for info please e-mail me. We did not attend church every sunday. I only took my son when he asked to go. He was very involved in his church. There is so much to tell. My son also wanted his ashes spread in Europe and a few other places. We lived over there for awhile. On his 16th birthday my husband of 8 years honored his request. Cody Siem 3/20/'82 to 8/7/'97. Killed on his way home to make my husband and I our annversary dinner. It will seem always like yesterday. It helps to still commucate with him now or I could not have survived this far. One of the first of many books I read was "Hello from Heaven' Cathy Siem-davis csiemdav@paulbunyan.net Grand Rapids, Mn USA